In a social construct akin to hiding the female nipple, there is effort to disguise the male package with good tailoring and cunning restraint so it isn’t always easy to see the detail. The amount of variance in penis size-rigidity including whether it retains its foreskin is not casually shared. Men don’t always understand why/if women “like” his particular penis but for sure the scale of appreciation is far different than males have for female “parts” in general. The penis is a “part”, only a “part”, but it is the bearer of male dreams and hopes with his twin seed buddies swaying along. This sexual hot zone is always there (a banked fire), outside his body, while women tuck their sex within a tidy seam. Sperm play the game of redundancy en masse (in waves) while eggs go for time-release of batches in set intervals not related to sex activity (alone or with other(s)). Her lifelong inventory might be 300,000 eggs.
Using a mathematical model and data from 325 women,
the researchers found that the average woman is born with around 300,000 eggs
and steadily loses them as she ages,
with just 12 percent of those eggs remaining at the age of 30, and only 3 percent left by 40.
These differences are biologically set and culturally significant, replicated in nature’s evolution that makes fathering a child momentary but parenting a child an investment of decades. Sparking a child has impacts on identity, housing, career, family relations, and religion. Parenting is an across-the-spectrum extended event still most allied with feminine strategy no matter how many dads do step forward. It is a smart survival move to shelter your young with family style living which is where step-parents, grandparents, siblings and others may come forward to complete the circle that surrounds a child. These are all post-facto strategies to deal with the ongoing long-term tasks and commitments that result from the momentary actions that make a baby.
Forget the argument about which of the genders is “superior” and get to bio-basics. Which gender literally bears the next generation of souls? How many wombs are required to save our species? In catastrophic situations it is not a 50-50 gender split. It’s like 92% womb-enabled and 8% sperminators. That ratio will readjust to the more usual 1:1 ratio that keeps us replicating. Still, mathematically, in times of species peril it is men who are fungible. One guy can spawn an army, while one woman might maybe populate a squad or two. Her function sets her value.
Same-so the appetite for visual porn which shows a definite gender split; men will look at uncountable images of female anatomy and overall sexuality.
Addicted to Porn: Chasing the Cardboard Butterfly https://www.hulu.com/watch/1078650
Men truly “relate” to it, using it to trigger the mental-physical ejaculation of their sexual feelings. Women are not usually the target audience of male-manufactured porn since women don’t really need to buy access to human nudity; they work a quid pro quo exchange heavily in their feminine favor. Men’s seizing of governments and economies as their private playgrounds, discounting female philosophy in resource management, leads to the kind of scandals we are so familiars with: product recalls, shoddy agencies, demoralizing entertainment. To reach a new balance among the genders it must in some ways swing far to the female side then adjust again to the center for stability; there has to be a countermotion to the male supremacy behavior that got us to a polluted warring planet. This mathematical analysis in times of great duress does not negate the love angle in a modern family human-home dynamic, it’s a primitive urge to gather in cadres.
You herded your doe & the fawns onto the elevator, a domesticated buck,
a man in flip-flops, with a pocket full of penis on alert.
For true gender equilibrium there has to be admission of the salient differences without unleashing bedlam. Women function differently in their biology, and are held to a more complicated social role). So too women must acknowledge the swarm mentality of sperm, driven with the herd forward-inward, whether upward or downward, never coordinating, all out frenetic motion a-go-go while the eggs meander through their lunar cycle. Apply to human gender-differentiating behavior to identify the static between us. Different wavelengths and frequencies.
Too often men miss the moments when a female is receptive, failing to pick up her subtle signals. Different wavelengths, really, so men who can tune in to the feminine hum are more successful than following his own broadcast as it pinballs around women who are not ready.
Vive la difference is the best advice for intra-gender strategy, not merely between you and other(s) but within you and without you. There are few of us who explore our sexuality with an open mind. Quick flips can be good for the pace and posture, exercise your points of view.
The evolution of individual purpose plays here too; women’s breeding cycles seek a certain kind of partnership that is less adaptive in her later years when she can step off front-line parenting. With our longer lifespans, we can expand the definition of evolving goals and roles.